August 26, 2013

So my new companion is named Elder Mendoza (if I knew more I would tell you). He is from Ecuador and has been in the mission for a year. We have gotten along fine so far. He doesn't speak English so it has been a little different in that I can't ask him to translate anything for me if I don't understand but that doesn't happen very often anymore. 

This transfer was really weird. My trainer (Elder Swenson) also trained just before I got here. The elder he trained is named Elder Dena and he has 6 months in the mission. The weird part about the transfers is that Elder Dena is now a Zone Leader.... he skipped District Leader and went straight to Zone Leader after just 6 months. I am willing to bet that he is the youngest (least time in the mission) Zone Leader in the history of the Mission!! Who knows maybe this will be a new trend in the mission very young Zone Leaders that were never District Leaders. I know this wasn't a fluke because another elder with the same time and in the same situation is also a new Zone Leader. It was just really weird.

I think it is awesome that you all had fun at Long Beach and at Grandma's. Yes the 15th birthday is huge in Mexican culture. it is their equivalent of our "Sweet 16." It is OK if you don't go next year but when I get home we ARE going. Even if it is only for a day or two.

So this week was interesting because we wern't able to get as much work in as we whould have liked. We had transfers on Tuesday, a training for the District Leaders on Friday and Saturday and Sunday was our stake conference. Therefore we really only had about 5 hours ever day (or less) to work. It sucked. We still managed to get a fair amount of work done but we could have gotten a lot more done. The good thing is that I got to listen to the mission president twice this week. He always speaks in our transfer meeting and he also spoke in the pristhood session on stake conference. Every time I hear him speak I am more sure that he is inspired.

Wo this week's experience is about a crazy guy. I think I am up to about 4 or 5 crazy guy encounters now. This one we were walking to an appointment and he half stopped us and we half stopped him (we had some time so we were looking for opportunities to contact). He went off for about 5 or 10 minuets about how Jesus has saved him and how he used to be a drug addict and alcoholic (for 15 years). We tried to say a few things but he just kept on talking. Every time we said almost anything about either The Restoration, Prophets, or the Book of Mormon, Ee would just quote some obscure scripture in Revelation and say that we were wrong. Also every time we said anything about doing anything he would just "quote" the Bible how it says that we are only saved though Grace and not Works. The Bible never says that. The closest it comes is in Acts which says " But we believe that through the grace of the Lord Jesus Christ we shall be saved, even as they." This doesn't say we will be saved ONLY though grace just that it is through the grace of Jesus we are saved. If we look up more scriptures we can see that we can only obtain the grace of Jesus though works. I just hate it when they don't listen. 

See you all in a year and a half.

Elder Blanding

Elder Blanding being goofy. 

Elder Blanding being goofy. 

August 19, 2013

So on Saturday we recived the news that Elder Swenson is leaving and I am going to get a new companion here in Alamos... it was a sad day. Tomorrow we have to go to changes and I will be comeing back with a new companion. 

Well that is the big news of the week. There isn't much else to write about for today. Other than Elder Swenson completed a year this week. Man he is old. Here is a picture of how we celebrated it. 

Elder Blanding taking a swing.

Elder Blanding taking a swing.

This is a picture of the family who wrote the letter. We went by so that Elder Swenson could say bye and we took some pictures. This is the best one.

Elder Blanding with the Rocha Family 

Elder Blanding with the Rocha Family

 

So i have been writing things down to write to you all and I forgot to put them in my first letter so here we go. 

First we need to do another road trip when I get back, something like the Lewis and Clark one we did a while ago. Also we need to take a trip to 6 flags when I get back because the last time we went I was too young to ride the cool rides.

Second you need to ask the Montiels to make you Mole Poblano (tell them to make it sweet not spicy, it can be made both ways) and Chiles en Nogada. They are delicious. 

Third could you send me some Starbursts in the NEXT package you send, they don't have them here. Don't send me one earlier than you would have anyways but just put some in.

Fourth, could you talk to Scott about getting me a new retainer because the one I had broke and my teeth on the top are starting to spread again. I only need the top one. if it isn't possible don't worry about it.

 

Elder Blanding

 

August 12, 2013

[I'm going to put a few emails together since Elder Blanding wrote a few emails to the family. Hopefully I will be able to edit them in a way that makes sense. I can also tell that some of Spanish is rubbing off in his letters as he is mixing up sentence structure.]

Things his mother wanted to know:

My health is fine. One of the Elders that was in my MTC district has an amoeba and Elder Swenson has fleas but I am fine.

They actually increased the amount of money they give us a few months ago. It didn't matter to me, it will just mean that I have more left over at the end of the month (I had left overs last time). 

[Now the real letter]

HI ALL!!! Boy does time fly. It feels like yesterday I was saying bye and I have already been gone for 1/4th of my mission (I only have a year and a half left). [He has only been out five months, but he is coming home in February 2015 not March 2015--that's how the math works out.]

Yes we had the baptisms (see attachment, "hay señal")!!  It was amazing!! We have been working with the mom and daughter since we got to the area (literally day 2) and the young man for the last 3 weeks. It was really nice that they finally got baptized. 

Also this week we had a zone conference. It is always a treat to be able to listen to the mission president train us. Every time he does I become more sure that he receives inspiration. It is just amazing. The theme was teaching with power. He basically taught us how to teach people through questions and not through giving a talk. The idea is to get them thinking and answering their own questions. Also if you do the questions right you can just tell them that they are right and move on without spending 5 min. explaining something to them that they already know. Also he told us that when someone has a doubt or difficulty we should always look for the doctrine that we can connect to the doubt or question that answers/clears it up. Another thing that he taught us is when someone has a doubt or some reason that they don't want to do something we should basically be a mirror for them and use a question to basically show them that they are not thinking very logically. One example he showed us of this was for someone who didn't want to go to church. He used the plan of salvation as the doctrine because they were teaching it at the time (real example). He asked if the sister (it was a woman) wanted to return to live with God after this life. Of course she said yes. He then asked (lovingly) why, if she wanted to live with and talk with God for the eternities, why she didn't want to be in his presence here on earth. He then told her that she can be in his presence by going to church. After he gave the example he asked one of the missionaries what the result  of that lesson was. The missionary answered that she has come to church twice since that lesson, she hadn't come once in years (less active). 

It is amazing the kind of insight he can give to us. He gave us a few more examples and then we had to practice it together. I always hate doing those practices because it is always hard to start cold with someone. It is easier in real life because you always have something to go off of. Either way we are trying our best to put it in to practice. 

We also learned you can cook scrambled eggs in a microwave. You just put the egg in a bowl (spray "Pam" first so it doesn't stick) scramble it and then put it in the microwave (cover it with a paper towel because it will explode) for a minute and then it is ready to eat. It is not that bad actually. I have made one every morning since Wednesday (that was when the conference was). The reason they showed us how is because they want us to start eating healthier than we have been so they showed us some ways to make something really fast but healthy.

So transfers are in a week and so this will probably be my last week with Elder Swenson :( We have been together for more than 2 transfers now (2 transfers and 2 weeks) and so one of us will almost certainly have transfers. It is very rare when a trainer and trainee stay together after the training is done. I still don't know if I want to stay here or go somewhere else. I love this area and we have had a lot of success (Elder Swenson says it is his most successful area so far and he will have been out one year on Thursday). But as much as I love this area I do want to get to know another area and more people. Odds are that he will go because he has been in this zone for 6 months now (we have the same time in this area though). We won't know until Saturday so I'm not going to worry about it.

Love from. 

-Elder Blanding-

Elder Blanding second from Right

Elder Blanding second from Right

August 5, 2013

I don't remember us ever having a burn ban in Western Washington. it must be really hot and dry. I hope it all works out.

So this week we saw a bit of a miracle. Well actually it started last week but anyways. We left one house at the farthest part of our area and started to walk towards our next appointment (about a 30 min. walk). While we were walking one of the combies pulled over and told us to get in (not that uncommon that a combi driver gives us a free ride). We got in and then got off a few minuets later because we needed to go a different way than the combi would go. We started to walk and while we were walking a car pulled over in front of us and told us to come to talk to him... in English. We went over and started to talk to him and he turned out to be an old investigator who was looking for some Elders to practice his English with. We talked with him for a while and then set up an appointment with him. He wanted to meet us in the chapel so we set it for Tuesday at 11. He actually came and was very interested and remembered a lot of what the missionaries had taught him. We set another appointment with him for Thursday, I just hope he shows up.

This week I have some mission secrets to reveal. So because Elder Swenson is District Leader we have exchanges with the Zone Leaders every transfer and this transfer we had them on Friday/Saturday. While I was with one of the Zone Leaders he told me that the mission is going to start contacting again. Yes you read that right, contacting. The mission hasn't been doing it for a long time and President Christensen is going to bring it back. It is always weird when we change the way we do things because you get used to doing it one way and then they change the rules on you and you have to get used to a whole new way of doing missionary work. We are going to find out more on Wednesday during the Zone Conference so I will let you know more next week. Actually next week will probably have a lot of news because of the Zone Conference this week.

Yesterday I finished my training. It is weird to think that I have been here for 3 months now and that I am now no longer being trained and that I am just a normal Elder now. The sad thing is that it means that ether myself or Elder Swenson will probably be transferred next transfer but hey we knew it was going to happen at some point. 

Also something else happened yesterday. OUR INVESTIGATORS WITH BAPTISM DATES CAME TO CHURCH AGAIN!!!!!!! They came for the second time and so they can be baptized on Saturday!! We just need to finish teaching the last few lessons to "José" and then the interview and then they will be baptized on Saturday. I am so exited because we have been working with this family since we got to the area and they are now ready to be baptized!!

Elder Blanding 

Elder Blanding at a Zone Conference

Elder Blanding at a Zone Conference

July 29, 2013

Happy Birthday Matt!!! (see recording)

[when I figure out how to upload recordings I will upload the one he sent] 

Hey ya'll,

So these last few weeks have been really awesome. We have family we have been working with basicly since I got to Mexico and they have wanted to get baptized since the very begining and have had about 6 diferent baptism dates but we kept needing to change them because to be able to be baptized you need to come to chruch twice and they hadn't. The most recent baptism date we put with them is for the 10th of August. we were so afraid that they wouldn't come and we would have to change the baptism date again BUT they came on Sunday so now they just need to come next Sunday and they can be baptized!!! it is so exiting to see people progressing like this.

We have a zone conference next week (the 7th) and more likely than not we will find out how the broadcast a few weeks ago will start to change things here. So stay tuned for the update.

I have almost filled my jornal so if you could send me another one that would be great. (doesn't have to be the same type)

Also they have changed some of the missionary dress standards, you can now wair light grey sutes and kaki pants. (check lds.org for the full list) they didn't change much but they did change some. You should cheak it out. Also the same 7 ties every week is getting a little old so the NEXT time you send me something maybe you should include some more ties. 

Elder Blanding.

 

July 22, 2013

Congratulations on your run. (You are still as crayz as ever). 

WE HADE OUR BAPTISM SATURDAY!!!! She is 13 and her partents are both members but they went inactive about 7 years ago and she never got baptized. It was really cool to finally have a baptism that I taught the whole way and not just the last 2 lessons. 

So I decided last Monday that I would wait to tell you about this untill today so I could have pictures. Wait for it....... WE GOT PERMISSION TO GO TO THE WORLD CHAMPIONSHIPS OF TAEKWONDO LAST WEEK!!!!! It was so weird that we were given permission to go because it is a sporting event and so we didn't think we could go but the elders in resujimento (sp) wanted to go so we asked the zone leaders. At first the zone leaders said yes so we relayed the message to the other elders and they told the sister who offered to get them tickets that we could go. However on Saturday we had a meeting with the zone leaders (Elder Swenson is district leader) and the other one said that we may not be going because they still had to ask the assistants for permission. so they asked Sunday night and the assistents said yes (probably asked the presedent). It was so weird that we were able to go. It was really cool. I took a few videos and if we set up a file share (I don't think there is a problem with that just to send pictures, videos and recordings). I will send you some.

It is just fine working with the sisters. We just have to be carefull that we keep our distance and don't interact too much.

I've pretty much gotten used to eating at 3 now so it isn't a problem.

We got a new ward mission leader this week. He is a 18 year old who is waiting for his mission call. Our old one didn't really have time to fullfill his calling because of his job and while we were in ward council the stake presedent (just happened to be there) sugested that we call our new one (by name). It is really weird that our ward mission leader is yonger than I am. The good thing is that the new one has all the time in the world to work with us because he just got out of school a few weeks ago and doesn't have a job. It will defenently be nice to have a ward mission leader who will work with us.

Also one more thing the son of the bishop here wants to add me on facebook so if you see a Mario Madrigal trying to friend me you can accept. Also what did you change my Facebook name to Elder Jason Blanding or just Elder Blanding?

Elder Blanding

Elder Blanding on the right

Elder Blanding on the right

Elder Blanding

Elder Blanding

July 15, 2013

First for the package if you can find them I need fine point refills for a Parker pen (bought one in the MTC and the ink is running out) I have looked here but I can't find them anywhere. And you could always send a giant bag of candy :) jolly ranchers sound good to me. Also more gum wouldn't hurt.

I still can't belive that you let them all get guns. I still remember the mom that wouldn't let us have play guns let alone anything that whould shoot things. Are their guns in the picture or are those all just the guns for the cub camp?

I have no clue what is going on with El Popo I can see it sometimes and it looks normal to me.

So I got three letters this week. You keep asking me to tell you how long it takes but all I can tell you is that it doesn't really matter because I need to go to the offices or the zone leaders do for me to get any mail. So it could take an extra 6 weeks after it gets to the offices before I will get it. Tell Mike to tell Shelby that she can write me if she wants to we are alowed to write friends now (through E-mail, we have always been able to by snail-mail). Also what is Kray's E-mail I want to send him something directly but I don't have his E-mail. Also can you all start making a list of the movies I miss while I am out here and that I need to see when I get back (particularly Disney and Pixar)?

Well this week I rediscovered that my MP3 has a voice recording function so I am seding you a short recording. I have one that is a lot longer but It is to big to send so I will need to find some other way to send it. Maybe we can set up some sort of file share site that I can just deposit all of my recordings there and then you can download and listen to all of them.

Also this week we got sisters in the other half of the ward so things have gotten a little more complicated here. I told you all about how things needed to change last time so I will be short. The bigest change is that we don't eat together. They eat at 2 and we come later at 3. Yes we don't eat untill 3 in the afternoon and it is a little anoying to be honest. I will get used to it but it will require a change.

We will have a baptism this Saturday!!! It is for a 13 year old girl and we are all really excited. It will be my first baptism that is really mine (I don't really count the first one because we only taught him twice and he was baptized days after we got into the area). I just hope the rest of the investigators we have will get baptized too.

Also we found out that the parents of the 13 year old (both members) are not mairied to eachother... the worst part about it is that they have been living together for 13 years and the mom was baptized 10 years ago... do the math and she shouldn't have been baptized because they weren't mairied. Oh and the mission president at the time was the one who baptized her. I don't know how this stuff happens here but apparently it isn't uncommon.

Well that is about it. Just know that I love you all and I miss you.

Love,

Elder Blanding

 

July 8, 2013

Mother update here:

I hate to say this, but these updates might go on a two or even three week vacation. I've got a heavy "work" load the next few weeks (cub camp, ragnar, family camping trip) that will have me busy most Monday afternoons.  I've noticed that as of right now I'm getting Jason's emails between 11 and 3 our time. And next week I'll be busy with a whole bunch of cute cub scouts.  The following week I'll be on Whidbey Island enjoying the smells of a campfire (I hope). I'll still get his emails, but I won't have the big screen to make editing changes that make these blog posts look so nice.  

This "work" load also puts a damper on my time to email/write Jason so PLEASE take a moment and share a favorite conference quote, scripture or funny story that happened to you this week with him. His email address is jblanding@myldsmail.net . I know he would LOVE to hear from you!

He did send a photo this time but it was of another dead animal and I refuse to put them on my webpage.  

I did mention a recent article in the Seattle Times about El Popo (the volcano not far from him) erupting and if it was a big deal, his reply: "Why was it in the paper? It hasn't done anything since I got here, that I know of. It looks like any other mountain (I can see it almost every day)."

Here's the link (don't know how long it will stay there) http://seattletimes.com/html/nationworld/2017999800_apltmexicovolcano.html But this is my favorite website for updates on the volcano--more "real" than hype. http://www.volcanodiscovery.com/popocatepetl/news.html And they have a live webcam--I get to see the weather in Mexico. Puebla is about 35 miles due east of Popcatepetl. The views of the crater are spatular (see below for one snapshot I grabbed for Jason's missino journal).  I lived through Mt. St. Helens (was living in Richland) and remember that day very well.  Anyway….

Now on to his emails:

Well this week was interesting... first we went to visit a sister who's in her 80's and had been diagnosed with cancer a few weeks ago. While we were there she was sleeping so we were talking with her daughter who was taking care of her. She told us that for the last few days she had started talking in her sleep, to her siblings and parents that have passed. While we were there I needed to go to the bathroom and while I was doing my business I hear the hermana saying "mami" over and over again and she starts to sound desperate. All I could thing of was "please don't let this be happening". By the time I was done she had passed on. It wasn't a surprise to anyone that she did but it was a surprise to us that we were there when it happened. Here they always have the funeral the next day and so we went. It was a nice service and everyone knew it was her time to go.

Now that that story is over I have some news. So when we got to this area we split a ward with the Elders who were already here. Now both of the other Elders in Alamos 2 (we are Alamos 1) are being replaced by Hermanas (sisters)!!! This changes a lot in how things are going to work in this ward because up until now we have eaten together with Alamos 2 and we also washed our clothes in the same place but now we can't do that anymore (not allowed to). It is a little inconvenient but things will work out. We will find out tomorrow who they will be and exactly how it will all work (transfers are tomorrow).

Oh and could you send me some slippers to walk around the house with because my sandals are not the most comfortable shoes in the world and you can't really walk around barefoot here.

Love you all.

Elder Blanding. 

Here is the crater of El Popo as of June 25, 2013. COOL!

Here is the crater of El Popo as of June 25, 2013. COOL!

July 1, 2013

Well this week has been a rollercoster. First we had Elder Swenson's birthday on Tuesday. That was pretty cool expept that we got soaked because we didn't have our jackets.

Next (I think it was on Wednesday) we got a text from one of our investigators that said that the dad of the daughter and the ex of the mom (whom they have not had contact with for 10 years) came and they were going back to their puebla (town). We thought we wouldn't even get the opportunity to say good buy to them. Luckily and to our surprise they were only going for a day and now they are going to fill out some paper work to make it so that this kind of thing won't happen again (they want nothing to do with him).

It was definitely the most interesting day of my mission so far.

Today we had a zone activity and so that is why I am writing so late. It was cool, we played some games and then ate PIZZA HUT!! Yup pizza is a luxury here. It is also nice that I got to eat real American food for a change. (American food here isn't really American food.)

Also something that happened on Monday was that we saw 3 and 1/2 dead animals on the side of the road (not all one after the other). i will give details and photos in another E-mail so as not to make you throw up all over your brand new computer. You should show them to Kray and Mike at least.

The story is that we were walking down the Street to wash our clothes and on the side of the Street we see a dead cat just lying there. Later the same day we were walking down a Street and I commented to Elder Swenson that there was a dead pig farther down the Street (I saw it a few days before). But before we got there we found another dead cat/dog/fox in the Street with it's brains and guts all over the Street. Needless to say it was an interesting day. 

[Sorry but I'm not adding the dead animal pictures.] 

Elder Blanding

Beautiful Puebla

Beautiful Puebla

Jason LOVES pizza! I think I see three boxes and a thumbs up in the bottom right hand corner. 

Jason LOVES pizza!
I think I see three boxes and a thumbs up in the bottom right hand corner. 

2013 June, Jason's mission, .jpg

June 24, 2013

So this week was cool we found a less active family and the 13 year old daughter wants to be baptized!! (This was an amazing turn of events because we have only had one family of investigators since I got here.) Also the daughter and the mom of the family came to church on Sunday!! Sadly the father didn't because he had to work but I still have hope. The family has been inactive for 6 years and is only now starting to come back. 

Also tomorrow is Elder Swenson's Birthday!! To celebrate we went out to eat at Applebee's and got Krispy Kream. it was nice to eat normal food again. The only problem with doing something like that is that it is expensive... luckily I didn't have to pay for it :) The whole district went plus some elders from the zone it is in (it isn't in my zone) so there were 10 of us all together (4 companionships in my district and one from the other zone). era bien rico (it was very rich/good).

Also I got your package and also 3 more cards. I can't remember what numbers they were but that is three more I have. Also about telling you how long it takes that wouldn't make much of a difference because all the mail goes to the office and we only get it when we ether go there or we have some sort of zone get together so it it really quite random. In addition the mail system here is unreliable at best so while one might only take a few days another might take weeks or even months.

While I am on the topic of mail, I am attaching a photo of some of the stickers you sent me and I really hope that you noticed the same thing I did (missing "a" in hija). I thought it was kind of funny.

[I didn't include that photo] 

I also have an interesting story to tell. So Elder Swenson and I were walking to the stake center to go to a zone conference and as we are walking we hear someone yelling in English. Turns out it was an Australian woman who had been visiting Puebla and was on her way to the airport to go home. While she was on the bus someone stole her wallet with 50 pesos and her credit card. The pesos aren't anything (less than 5 dollars) but the card was a big loss. We tried to help her as best we could and even let her use our phone to try to cancel her card but none of the numbers she had worked. I really wish there was more we could have done to help her but the person who took her wallet had disappeared by the time we found out what had happened.

Elder Swenson's Birthday Bash at Applebee's Jason is in the front on the right.

Elder Swenson's Birthday Bash at Applebee's
Jason is in the front on the right.

How to stuff six Elders in a Mexican Taxi.  One is hiding behind the taxi driver's head.  Jason is dead center in the back.

How to stuff six Elders in a Mexican Taxi. 
One is hiding behind the taxi driver's head. 
Jason is dead center in the back.


 

June 17, 2013

This is Jason's email from today.

I've had to do some explaining so you can understand his letter.

"Well, this time I feel bombarded with love"

[He titled this email because I think I sent him five or six emails this week to make up for no emails last week. My email time got messed up with a few family emergencies.]

I don't think I will be able to comment on everything there is so much!!! well here I go.

[I have numbered my cards I send in the mail and he told me a few he was missing and I told him of the one that was returned from the Dallas Mission]

Ya I figured I would miss a few cards with all the travailing. I probably left before it got there because they gave me one right when I left so if it had come before I left I would have got it.

Cool good luck with figuring out the new computer. Now y'all just need to save up to get me a laptop when I get home so I can have one for school :) JK (But seriously I will need a computer for school especially because I want to go into computer programing.)

Please tell Gwenaelle I'm happy for her and that we should be getting home about the same time.

it is so weird how fast time can fly. I wasn't expecting seminary to end this soon but then again it is June so I guess it just feels to soon. Good luck with the summer and finding time to do everything you need. BUT DON'T FORGET ABOUT ME!!!! I still want to feel loved during your crazy summer.

Thanks but actually it is my mouth that needs the prayers. All this spicy food will kill me one of these days. [I commented on how much food I have at the end of the week.] Actually that is just what happens when you lose a teenager in the house. If you don't change the amount of food you buy with one less person you are going to have more food than you used to (something I like to call "logic"). We don't actually eat snacks because we always get fed. The main meal here is called "la comida" and it is what we would call a late lunch. It is at about 2 or 3 and it is usually bigger than our dinners. We hardly eat breakfast (maybe a bowl of cereal) and almost never eat dinner (usual just some bread we get given by a family that owns a bakery). Oh and the bread here is different, while they have normal sliced bread the majority isn't. I don't really know how to describe it but most of it is really good.and I have no idea what sister Montiel could be talking about.

We eat with members every day except for Monday. They always feed us la comida and there is usually a lot of food.

Well my day consists of shower, breakfast and study in the morning then we go out for about an hour or two before la comida at around 2. After la comida we visit less actives, actives and any references/investigators we have. There isn't a lot of work with investigators here because we aren't allowed to knock doors or plan to do contacting activities (we can still contact but we are told not to go out of our way to do it). We get back between 9 and 9:30 and then plan the next day. After that it is what ever we want to do around the house until 10:30 when we go to bed. There is my day. Oh and Sundays we have church at 12 and have to be home by 8 so we can call in our numbers.

CONGRATULATIONS ON YOUR PR!!!!!! That is so cool that you did that!! Every time you run another marathon or half marathon you just confirm the fact that you are crazy. Also I hope the LYTTS conference went well and that you manage to find more free time.

Yes you do look AWESOME!!! 

Cool I bet Matt (and you) did a great job and that the teachers can now go and beat the USA men's team. (not hard) [Matt and I taught soccer to the young men.]

I think I have everything I need and I think that I can download music and what not right onto my MP3 player so maybe you could include one song as an attachment to the next E-mail so I can try. 

Well I think that out of all of us Jessie is the one that can be responsible enough to have a phone before 14 (I probably wouldn't have been).

[He asked me why I sent him a little stuffed monkey.]

I figured it was just because. Cool now you need to let me help decide what to get for the rest of the boys. I wouldn't have objected to a unicorn but I think the monkey was a better choice.

[About his release date]

It might change but I don't think so. the only reason it might is if I get asked if I want to ether extend or shorten my mission and I don't think they will.

I miss that view:( where is that picture from? [I sent a picture of Mt. Rainier.]

[I asked what mountain he sent in the last email.]

I have no idea what mountain it is I just thought it looked cool so I took the picture. 

Well now I start the E-Mail proper.

First off, 2 OF OUR INVESTIGATORS WENT TO CHURCH THIS WEEK!!! One was even a surprise because Saturday they had a lot of family (some are actually members we didn't know this when we first met them) but she went to the 8am sacrament meeting so that was great. The other had been once before in fact that was where we contacted her. Getting them to church is always the hardest part of missionary work. It is also the most frustrating because you can't do anything other than invite them half a billion times and they really have to make a commitment to go because it takes time out of their day and lots of people work on Sunday. 

I also have a request to make... please send me "How the Grinch Stole Christmas" for Christmas this year. I need my own to continue the tradition. Also if you could send me some pictures of things to put on the front and back of my planners that would be awesome the dimensions are 6in.*3 3/8in. or 16 3/10 cm.* 8 9/10 cm. and if they are bigger no big deal because I can always trim them right now I am using pictures out of old Liahonas to make planers. Oh and I will make 15 more so if you could send like 30 pictures that would be great. (If you don't want to don't worry I just thought it would be cool to be able to put pictures of my family and friends on there. 

Speaking of friends can you post on my facebook that it is getting lonely out here and get them to E-Mail me!! 

Well I was reading in the Liahona the other day and I came across a few articles that I thought you might want to share with the rest of the family. They are in the January 2013 issue. they are the articles on pages 54 and 56. I was mostly thinking the first one for Kray and Mike but who ever else you think might like them can read them too. The first one is titled Education I think and I can't remember the second one. Also there is in the same issue an article about the wisdom of the world vs the wisdom of God that I think you might like but I can't remember the page number.

Well I can't wait to see you all again when I get home in about 20 months (ya it really is that short) 

Love you all: 

Elder Blanding

Blessings:

-I am grateful that English is my first language and not my second because now that I am learning another language I realized just how weird English really is. Also watching other people try to learn English is sad because they try so hard but English just doesn't like people to learn it. Also along the same lines I am grateful that I don't need to have movies translated to understand them because here if they want to see a movie opening night all they get is subtitles and if they want a voice over they have to wait like 3 months to get one.

-Also I am grateful that I had such a great house back home. The houses here are tiny. If our house were here in Mexico, it would be a mansion. Also again with carpet.

[He sent two photos but you will have to go to his blog to see them.]

 

His companion during study time.

His companion during study time.

The Bishop, his family, Elder Blanding & companion

The Bishop, his family, Elder Blanding & companion

June 10, 2013

Don't feel loved :( (no letter from home)

Well even though you didn't send me anything I will be nice and send you a letter anyways.

First off I know when my release date is... wait for it............. The 18th of February 2015!!! And yes that is a few weeks earlier than exactly 2 years. (I think they are sending me home exactly on the transfer date instead of in the middle of one.)

Well things are going great here we have been having a lot of success with the less actives in our area and have had more than 10 less actives (individuals) at church the last 2 weeks. The only problem we are having right now is getting our investigators to church. Then again that is always the hardest thing. At least they have a legitimate excuse in that the dad/grandfather of the investigators is really sick right now and they keep having to go to help take care of him but it is still frustrating that they haven't come to church yet. One nice thing is that we put on a ward activity on Saturday and they came to that and had a great time. 

Well I do have some comments/questions for you... first I only have cards 1-6,8,11 & 12 so if you sent any others I haven't got them. Second I have been wondering why you sent me the monkey and if it was for any reason other than you could.

The attachment is how nice Puebla can look on a clear day. (Time would be more precise because it is almost always clear at some time of the day and then rains like no other sometime in the afternoon/evening.)

 

2013 June 7, Jason's mission.JPG

June 3, 2013

First I asked him last week where Alamos 2 (his district) was because we are trying to find him on the map and he replied:
“Actually they changed it to Alamos 1 right before Transfers. It is in the city of Puebla and it is near the border between the north mission and the south mission. Maybe if you search for the Colonia Alamos you will be able to find it.”


I did and this is what I found:

  [link won't post right now--I'll have my computer geek work on it]

I  put in “puebla mexico Alamos” in google maps search. It also gave me a few other options, so I still don’t know where Jason is except in the hands of the Lord, doing his work and all is well.

Jason's email:

“3 months down 21 to go (not that I’m counting)”

[He actually titled his email this time!]

I am actually not counting down I'm just counting how long I have been out by the number of transfers that I have (or would have) been though. One transfer is 6 weeks so counting the MTC I have been through 2 and am just starting my third and there are 17.3 transfers in a mission counting the MTC so there are about 16 in the field and you go home at the end of the 16th I think. It is really easy to count transfers because you use one planer per transfer so all I have to do is keep them all and whenever I want to know how many transfers I have been out for I just count my planners so I have one transfer in the Field and so I have one old planner. 

Well Elder Swenson is now district leader and almost certainly will be for this transfer and the next. This is because training is 2 transfers so neither of us are getting transferred next transfer unless for some reason they want me to train with 6 weeks in the mission (or him). 

This week was both awesome and terrible at the same time. I'll go with the bad news first so that you can be lifted up by the good after. 

We weren't very productive this week and our numbers show it. We barely had 5 lessons all week :( the work with investigators is very slow here. We don't do finding activities. We don't knock doors. We don't do much street contacting. All of our work basically has to come through the members and that can be very hard when they don't give you many referrals. Also I wish that I didn't have to learn a language to help these people and they all just spoke English. But enough of my complaining now I'm going to move on to why this week has been AWESOME!! 

We have been meeting with part of this family named Es* and a friend of theirs who lives with them and this week the 15 year old daughter basically asked to be baptized!!! So we set a date and are working to see if we can get the rest to have the same date so they can all be baptized together. It will be so cool if we are able to do it!! The only problem is that she works on Sunday and even worse is that she works during Church (Church is from 12-3 and she works from 10-3 on Sunday) so we don't know how hard it will be to get her to church and this week was even harder because they had a family emergency Saturday night when we had an appointment with them and so we were unable to invite them to church this week so we will have to move the baptism date because they need to come to church 3 times before they can be baptized ;(  The other good news is actually in the numbers I said were bad earlier. Here we track something called "MARS" which stands for "Menos Activos Reunión Sacramental" which means Less-Actives in Sacrament Meeting. The good news is that we had 10!! this week (that's a lot). The chapel was the fullest I have ever seen it. It actually looked like enough people to be a ward (it is one there are just a lot of less actives here).

Well I thought that I would send this picture to show off Mexican architecture and ingenuity... Yes that is what you think it is. They didn't like where the door was so they put a wall behind it.

-Elder Blanding

"The way not to go" 

"The way not to go" 

May 27, 2013

There were a few things that I forgot to mention about Mexico. One is transportation. When we need to get somewhere we have four ways we can get there, one is walking and of course that is the slowest but the cheapest and most reliable. The second way is to get a ride but we have only done that twice and it isn't very reliable because we don't plan for a ride they usually just offer to give us a ride so we never know if we are going to get one or not so we never plan on it or ask for one in advance. The third way is take a bus which is exactly what you would expect except you have to just stand at a place where they drive by and flag it down. The last way is to take a combe(sp) a combe is basically a small bus about the size of our van and like the buses you just need to flag one down and hope there is room (they are usually packed). That was one of the things I forgot, the other is that at my first comida I ate "Mole Publano" one of the spiciest foods they make here and I could barely eat any of it.

[Jason doesn’t like spicy or hot foods.]

This week has been interesting to say the least. I ran into my second crazy guy on Tuesday (first was that guy on my fist day in Texas) and this guy was totally nuts!! I am so glad I couldn't understand 90% of what he was saying because from what Elder Swenson told me he was talking about some nasty stuff. I will only say that he said that he had made a pact with the "santo muerto" and that he had tried black, white, red and I thing blue magic. There was more but I will spare you the details. Needless to say we will not be going back. 

Also just a few days ago Elder Swenson almost got hit by a bus. it must have been less than 3 inches away from him and was probably going about 45 MPH. 

Well that was all that I can think of to say about my week but I do have a request for both you and Dad, I want you to make a list of all your favorite books and at least rank the top 10 in order so that I will have plenty to read when I get home. Oh and preferably things in the sci-fi or fantasy genres. Also can you get me Elder Howlett's E-mail because now that we can E-mail friends I want to send him one?

Elder Blanding is third from left

Elder Blanding is third from left

A Mexican River; Elder Blanding wrote "Mexican garbage can aka the river. It smells worse than it looks.

A Mexican River; Elder Blanding wrote "Mexican garbage can aka the river. It smells worse than it looks.

May 20, 2013

Jason sent about 12 emails today because he was loading pictures and while the pictures were loading he would type and then send that email. He would then start another email and load pictures and type more while they were loading. I think I was able to put it all together and make the story flow.​

But first off his address: ​

Elder Jason Mark Blanding
Oficina Mision Mexico Puebla Norte
Av. 25 Sur #907
Col. La PazPuebla, Puebla, C.P. 72160

It cost $1.10 (or three forever stamps) to mail a letter to this address.  ​You can purchase overseas forever stamps at the post office too. It is the mission home address and that is where we are to send our letters.  Of course you can email him at jblanding @ myldsmail.net

Now to his letter home:​

So I am in Mexico now and wow do I realize just how much I actually had in the states.

I am writing this here because I am waiting for pictures to upload and so I am going to use the time instead of just waste it while I wait.

I have to say one of the things I miss the most is the food and the eating schedule. I can't stand the food here and the eating schedule is even worse. We only really have one meal here called "La Comida" (the food) and it is at about 2 or 2:30. I am hungry all the time because I only have one meal and maybe a few snacks throughout the day. I also miss the fact that I didn't have to worry about where what I drank came from. Here if you drink the water out of the faucet you WILL GET SICK! There is no doubt about it everything you drink has to either be from a bottle or you have to filter it yourself.

[Editor’s note: Elder Blanding could pack it away. He inhaled food.  After he left I didn’t change my shopping habit for a couple of weeks and noticed that I had cheese, meat, milk and bread leftover at the end of the week!! His snacks were four sandwiches and an hour later he'd asked, “When’s dinner?”]

I also miss carpet. I know that sounds strange but I have yet to see any carpet here. None! It is all either tile or concrete.

One thing I am glad about is that I am not driving here. It would be a death sentence. All of the drivers here are nuts!! No one stops for pedestrians, uses turn signals, stops at stop signs and they always cut each other off. The rule of the road here is that if you don't force your way in you are not getting in. He who has the most guts and is bigger; wins.

But either way I love the people here they are always offering us things and what not. Mexico’s economy really is reliant on the small family owned business. I can't even begin to count the amount of small stores that are on one street and whenever we go into one owned by a member they always offer us something.

It is weird to see the families that are well off their houses look the same from the outside but once you get inside they look really nice.

Some even have somewhat nice TVs and computers. The weirdest was the second to the most recent house we ate with (I think). On the outside the "house" looked like every other "house" here metal door no knob only a key hole (all houses are that way) but once you got inside the house they had nice furniture, a nice computer, a nice kitchen, the bathroom even looked nice.

But anyways the people here live very simply and so do we. We are lucky because one of the families in the ward runs a laundromat and so we were able to use a washing machine but everywhere else in the mission you have to wash your clothes by hand (not something I am looking forward to). 

Oh I had my first baptism on Saturday! Well really we stole it from the elders that were already in the ward and when we split the area he was in our part. His name was E* and he is 10 and both his parents are members but he wasn't baptized when he was 8 because his parents have been inactive for a while so it technically counts as a convert baptism. His dad was actually able to baptize him which was one of the coolest parts about the whole thing.

Also what they said about no tracting here is 100% true we don't even street contact because we have been told to focus on reactivating less actives and following up on the referrals we get from the members. I actually think that tracting should be banned in every mission because it is the least productive thing you can do and it is also one of the most dangerous things you can do.

It is hard to open up a new area because we don't have any investigators and we don't know anyone so we spent most of the week just getting to know the members and less actives. 

It is even harder when I don't speak the language but my comp tells me that I will probably know it well enough to talk with people in about a month so that will be nice. Either way I am going to probably (99% chance) be here in this area for the next 2 transfers and we are in the last week of the transfer. I should have gotten here at the start of and those 2 weren't including this one. 

Sorry if these E-mails seem disjointed I just have to keep changing messages because there is a limit on how much data you can send at once and I am trying to send you all my pictures (and for spelling the computer/keyboard are in Spanish). I don't know how much more I will send today but I will try to send as much as I can.

Anyways... there are a ton of dogs here. They just wander around and do whatever they want. I really hope that my allergies don't get the better of me and make things miserable.

Other than all of that I love it here and am so glad I was able to come here (finally). I have kind of run out of things to say and we should probably be going soon. But I will send as many pictures as I can before we leave.

Oh one more thing I don't like: the climate. It is hot here (at least it feels that way) and the air is so thin. Also it has rained every night for the past few days and the rain here is nothing like the rain in Seattle. It is closer to what we had at Disney World. Oh and when it rains there is usually thunder and lightning to go along with it. I almost feel like a traitor to Seattle because I have been using my umbrella and it makes me feel bad :( but I would rather be a traitor than be soaked to the bone.

 Well I don't really have more to write but I will keep sending pictures.

[I caught him while online and asked if he had a mailing address; this was his reply]

They actually said that if we want to actually get the mail we should have you send it to the office not to our addresses.

Also if you want to send me anything while I am here there is a list online of what the Mexican government will let though and what they won't and they said to have to check every time you send anything because it changes all the time.

[Then he replied to his dad’s email]

I arrived here right after it went off and they had already cleaned it all up so I don't have a story from it sorry :(

My area in Dallas was Sunbeck North and my area here is Alamos 2 (2 because we split the Alamos ward into 2 areas, so I am already opening a new area) my companion's name is Elder Swensen and he is from Las Vegas so he is just as gringo as I am (except he can speak Spanish and I can't).

Tell Mike and Matt Congratulations for me.

 

May 15, 2013

Elder Blanding made it to Puebla!​

President and Sister Christensen and Elder Blanding. Elder Blanding is in the middle. ​

President and Sister Christensen and Elder Blanding.
Elder Blanding is in the middle. ​

May 13, 2013

Elder Blanding was able to call his dad today from the airport in Dallas. It was a very brief phone call as there really wasn't much new news. He had just talked with us the day before.  He did say it was a direct flight to Puebla and would last about 2 1/2 hours.

Something else that is going on is that Mt. Popcatepetl (or Popo) is rumbling.  Popo is an active volcano just about 35 miles west of Puebla. According to other missionary moms, the area covered by North Puebla isn't getting too much ash and the mission and members there are all prepared if she wakes up.  ​

For his email session today he tried to empty his camera's memory card and sent my 98 photos. I will not add them all here.  But here is a sampling:​

Elder Blanding where are you going? Mexico, Puebla North!​

Elder Blanding where are you going?
Mexico, Puebla North!​

Elder Blanding on the far left.​

Elder Blanding on the far left.​

President & Sister Durrant of the Dallas Mission with Elder Blanding (far left) and five other "visa waiters".​

President & Sister Durrant of the Dallas Mission with Elder Blanding (far left) and five other "visa waiters".​

Elder Blanding writes, "Look, I can cook." This is an egg, cheese and bacon breakfast roll that I made all the time for him when he was home.​

Elder Blanding writes, "Look, I can cook."
This is an egg, cheese and bacon breakfast roll that I made all the time for him when he was home.​

Elder Blanding in the middle with his two companions Elder Adams and Elder Hammond in Dallas.​

Elder Blanding in the middle with his two companions Elder Adams and Elder Hammond in Dallas.​

May 12, 2013

Today's post is taken from our 1 hour Skype conversation with Elder Blanding. He was at a "members" home (she is a dry Mormon) and called us. It was so great to see his smiling face, hear happiness in his voice and enjoy chatting with him.   ​

Unfortunately I didn't get to ask all my good questions like, "How is the weather in Mexico?" or "How is church?" "Is President Christensen nice?" All those questions will have to wait for letters, emails and Christmas.  But he was leaving the next day for Mexico so we did get to chat a bit about his plans for tomorrow. ​

It was great to listen to the few stories and experiences he has had already: seeing Elder William Richardson, talking to the crazy guy, getting his first baptism, the reason his companion was in the hospital.  ​

My heart was happy!​

Happy Mother's Day to me!!

Doreen ​

May 5, 2013

Dear Mom,

I will send you a picture at some point. Don’t worry.

I have news!! I just got back from the consulate. My visa came through!!!! I will probably be leaving for Mexico within a week!! As much as I love the people here in Texas I can't wait to get to Mexico.

You need to send me all the info you have on the Ostler side of the family (anything related to the name) because one of the sisters in the mission is named Ostler. She is even in the same zone and goes to the same branch as I do so I see her/ talk to her at least a few times every week.

I don't know what I am going to do for Mother’s Day yet because I may be in Mexico by then and if I am still here we will be skypeing from a "member's" home (she hasn't been baptized yet but she might as well as be a member and all her kids have been). You should send me Dad's Skype info because I have no idea what it is.

Oh and he (the crazy guy) wasn't my first contact he was just someone I contacted on my first day.

I just got your package (and letter) when I went to the mission office to wait for my companions to come pick me up after I got done at the consulate. Thanks for the Oreos they were delicious although I probably shouldn't have ate them as fast as I did. Hopefully I will be able to fit everything in my suitcases now. I will probably end up leaving a few things here just so that I am not trying to cram so much stuff into my suitcases and pushing having to throw stuff away at the airport. Speaking of which, I will be able to call you when I fly to Mexico (most likely). I will call your cell phone so if you get a call from a number you don't know answer it because it may be me (particularly if it is from a pay phone).

I set a baptismal date this week!! It was with a woman named N* (please change the name before you send this to everyone else on the list). Elder Adams had found her about a month and a half ago while serving at a food bank (we do a lot of service because our mission is the pilot mission for a program called Just Serve where missionaries are encouraged to do more service (up to 10 hours a week) and are allowed to do service on Saturday). She had told him that her daughter had just been murdered not too long ago and she would give anything to be able to see/live with her again so Elder Adams shared a little about the plan of salvation and then asked if we could come by to teach her more and she said that she would like that. He had tried to contact her a few times before but had never managed to find her at home however this week we were able to finally meet with her and taught her a lesson and at the end of the lesson we invited her to get baptized on June 9th and she said yes!! It was such a cool experience and I am disappointed that I won't be here to see her get baptized but it was still an amazing event.

Love:

Elder Blanding

​​another email that afternoon

Thanks for the history. (nice to have 99% of our family history done already).

I will probably leave some of the heavy stuff that I brought with me (like my two large PMG (one Spanish, one English) and my extra set of Spanish scriptures).

April 29, 2013

I'm so sorry I missed you both times and I will get you on Mother's day I promise.

Good luck with the yard work. Was all my stuff out of the room when it flooded? that sounds like an awesome way to paint the room go for it.

You will never guess who I met this morning... William Richardson it turns out he is serving as an English Missionary in the Texas Dallas Mission. It is always weird seeing people you know from before the mission but this was unusually weird because I hadn't seen him for what is it now 4 years? That was so weird.

Tell Uncle Lee thanks for the thought.

I am going to send that letter I told you I would send you soon I just need to find a time to go put it in the mailbox.
Love you all:  Elder Blanding